{"id":982,"date":"2020-07-22T14:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-07-22T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radcaen.wordpress.com\/?p=982"},"modified":"2022-02-03T13:33:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-03T12:33:41","slug":"febfem-definition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radcaen.fr\/index.php\/2020\/07\/22\/febfem-definition\/","title":{"rendered":"Febfem : D\u00e9finition"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>Female Exclusionary Bisexual Female<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Febfem est un terme appartenant \u00e0 la communaut\u00e9 bisexuelle, et sp\u00e9cifiquement aux femmes bisexuelles. Il d\u00e9signe les femmes qui n&rsquo;ont de relations romantiques\/sexuelles qu&rsquo;avec d&rsquo;autres femmes. Il s&rsquo;agit d&rsquo;une identit\u00e9 bi (comme pansexuel), et d&rsquo;une forme de s\u00e9paratisme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Origine<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Le terme a \u00e9t\u00e9 invent\u00e9 sur Tumblr, en 2017, par une femme bisexuelle qui voulait un autre terme que \u00ab\u00a0female-exclusive-bisexual\u00a0\u00bb ou \u00ab\u00a0wlw\u00a0\u00bb (women loving women) pour parler des femmes bisexuelles n&rsquo;ayant des relations qu&rsquo;avec des femmes. Le premier terme \u00e9tant trop long, et le second non sp\u00e9cifique, l&rsquo;acronyme FEB est n\u00e9, plus tard agr\u00e9ment\u00e9 du suffixe \u00ab\u00a0-fem\u00a0\u00bb pour female (pas \u00ab\u00a0f\u00e9ministe\u00a0\u00bb).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Febfem signifie donc female exclusive bisexual female, une femme bisexuelle exclusive aux femmes. Bien que le but soit uniquement de d\u00e9crire une identit\u00e9 bisexuelle, les febfems sont souvent accus\u00e9es de transphobie et le terme est associ\u00e9 aux f\u00e9ministes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Utilisation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Febfem est utilis\u00e9 par un grand nombre de femmes bisexuelles, et les raisons pour lesquelles des femmes choisissent de devenir des febfems sont nombreuses et vari\u00e9es.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Elles sont plus attir\u00e9es par les femmes que par les hommes<\/li><li>Elles ne se sentent pas en s\u00e9curit\u00e9 avec les hommes et\/ou se prot\u00e8gent de traumas pass\u00e9s<\/li><li>Elles n&rsquo;ont jamais eu de relations avec un homme et ne veulent pas en commencer une<\/li><li>Elles ne re\u00e7oivent d&rsquo;attention romantique\/sexuelle que de la part d&rsquo;autres femmes et ce n&rsquo;est donc pas un \u00ab\u00a0choix\u00a0\u00bb<\/li><li>Elles sont GNC (ne conforment pas \u00e0 leur genre) et sont fatigu\u00e9es que leur partenaires masculins les encourage \u00e0 \u00eatre plus f\u00e9minines<\/li><li>Elles pr\u00e9f\u00e8rent l&rsquo;attention romantique des femmes<\/li><li>Elles sont en couple avec une femme et n&rsquo;envisagent pas de changer de relation<\/li><li>Elles ont arr\u00eat\u00e9 leurs relations avec les hommes pour des raisons politiques ou spirituelles<\/li><li>Le sexe conventionnel (p\u00e9nis dans vagin) est inconfortable et\/ou douloureux<\/li><li>Elles sont repouss\u00e9es par les p\u00e9nis<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Utilit\u00e9<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Cet acronyme a une grande importance parce qu&rsquo;il a permis aux femmes bisexuelles de nommer et de s&rsquo;identifier \u00e0 leur amour pour les femmes sans pour autant s&rsquo;approprier des termes lesbiens. Les bisexuels manquent cruellement d&rsquo;une culture propre et s&rsquo;appuient beaucoup sur les homosexuels, ce qui fait que les femmes bis manquent de connections entre elles. Cet acronyme est un premier pas vers les \u00e9l\u00e9ments d&rsquo;une culture bisexuelle, il permet de se rapprocher des lesbiennes tout en gardant la distance n\u00e9cessaire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Comme chaque mot, febfem peut \u00eatre retir\u00e9 de son contexte ou transform\u00e9 pour en modifier le sens. Certaines personnes se sentent agress\u00e9es par cette identit\u00e9 et donnent une mauvaises r\u00e9putation aux febfems, impliquant que les femmes qui choisissent d&rsquo;exclure les hommes de leur vie amoureuse :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Sont coinc\u00e9es et ont cr\u00e9\u00e9 le mot pour descendre les autres femmes<\/li><li>Aimeraient \u00eatre des lesbiennes parce qu&rsquo;elles n&rsquo;aiment pas \u00eatre bisexuelles<\/li><li>Ont \u00e9t\u00e9 pouss\u00e9es dans cette identit\u00e9 par des f\u00e9ministes pour une histoire de puret\u00e9 politique<\/li><li>Sont en fait des lesbiennes politiques (ce qui sous-entends qu&rsquo;elles sont h\u00e9t\u00e9ros)<\/li><li>D\u00e9testent les hommes<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Le terme febfem est tr\u00e8s important et apporte une option qui jusque l\u00e0 \u00e9tait tr\u00e8s floue pour les femmes bis : celle que les hommes ne sont pas une case obligatoire, et qu&rsquo;il est possible de choisir une relation homosexuelle quand on est bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La communaut\u00e9 febfem est pour l&rsquo;instant assez restreinte mais nous encourageons les femmes bisexuelles qui liront ce post \u00e0 parler de cette identit\u00e9 autour d&rsquo;elles ! C&rsquo;est une identit\u00e9 importante de la communaut\u00e9 LGBT, malgr\u00e9 les accusations de transphobie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration:underline;\">Sources externes :<\/span><br>(1) <a href=\"https:\/\/bi-women-confess.tumblr.com\/post\/184283990050\/bisexual-herstory-february-12th-2017-just-two\">L&rsquo;origine du terme<\/a> Febfem par <a href=\"https:\/\/bi-women-confess.tumblr.com\/\">bi-women-confess<\/a> sur Tumblr<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>[kofi]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>CC BY-NC-SA 4.0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Female Exclusionary Bisexual Female Febfem est un terme appartenant \u00e0 la communaut\u00e9 bisexuelle, et sp\u00e9cifiquement aux femmes bisexuelles. Il d\u00e9signe les femmes qui n&rsquo;ont de relations romantiques\/sexuelles qu&rsquo;avec d&rsquo;autres femmes. Il s&rsquo;agit d&rsquo;une identit\u00e9 bi (comme pansexuel), et d&rsquo;une forme de s\u00e9paratisme. Origine Le terme a \u00e9t\u00e9 invent\u00e9 sur Tumblr, en 2017, par une femme [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[39],"class_list":["post-982","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-definitions","tag-lgb"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Febfem : D\u00e9finition - RadCaen<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/radcaen.fr\/index.php\/2020\/07\/22\/febfem-definition\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fr_FR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Febfem : D\u00e9finition - RadCaen\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Female Exclusionary Bisexual Female Febfem est un terme appartenant \u00e0 la communaut\u00e9 bisexuelle, et sp\u00e9cifiquement aux femmes bisexuelles. 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